About Having Friends
It’s an odd thing about having friends when you have observe the beliefs that I do. Amy and I both have difficulty making friends where you feel that the feeling is 100% mutual. After all, we have several friends where we find ourselves being the one to call/email/contact and plan some get-together. No matter what we do, we may receive one direct contact from them, but otherwise, we are the ones initiating and maintaining the friendship.
Is this something worth all the time in upkeep? If the feeling is not truly mutual, then, in reality, your “friends” are merely humoring you and don’t have the guts heart to tell you the truth. These are not the friends I want to have, but it seems to be the only friends I ever get.
This is most likely due to, as I mentioned above, the belief system we hold dear. If the only time your friends want to meet is when you have to tell them “no” and remind them that you are at church on that day, they pretty soon lose interest. Does this mean they were your friends? Wouldn’t friends attempt to seek that comfortable medium where we can meet without interfering in either one’s schedules or beliefs? Or are they friends at all?
Yeah, I still try my best to make friendships. Just once in a while, I like to feel that the friendship is truly mutual.
